Here are some ideas for turning the ideal into action:
- Help someone load/unload their items at the store (especially heavy and/or awkward items)
- Return shopping carts to the corral or store
- If the bathroom stall you're using is almost out of toilet paper, resupply it for the next person
- Leave coupons on the shelf next to the items they discount, so the next shopper to come along can have the use of them
- Leave that lovely parking space right in front of the store for someone else
- Leave change in a vending machine; isn't it always a bit of a thrill to find coins in the coin return?
- Put change in a parking meter that has expired
- At the store, reshelve things that have been carelessly or inadvertantly misplaced
- Take the trouble to return lost items to their owner
- Offer to run an errand for someone
- Let someone merge into traffic in front of you
- Pay for the person behind you at the coffee shop/fast food line/tollbooth/bus or metro kiosk
- If it's raining, carry a neighbor's newspaper to their front porch so it will stay dry
- Send a thank you note for no reason to someone who deserves one - a teacher, a relative, or a community organizer
- Bake cookies and present them as a gift to someone deserving
- Let the guy in line behind you - the one that has only a few items - go in front of you
- Compliment someone you usually take for granted
- Say something nice about someone to someone else
- Deliberately turn a negative conversation positive
- Ask if you can help someone who seems to need help
- Give someone the benefit of a doubt
- Pick up litter in your neighborhood
- Leave someplace cleaner than you found it
- Beautify a public area
- Offer to babysit (or pet-sit) for someone who needs a night out
- Stop and listen to someone who needs to talk
- Stop to help someone who's car has broken down by the side of the road
- Help a neighbor or relative with yard work (planting in spring, mowing in summer, raking in fall, shoveling in winter)
- Hold the door open for someone
- Stop to help someone pick up items they've dropped
- Pay the tab for a serviceman who is dining at the same restaurant as you
- Send a thank you card (or package) to a serviceman overseas
- Donate blood
- Donate clothes, furniture, books, food, etc.
- Offer someone a piece of gum
- Give someone your seat on the bus/metro, even if they're not elderly or pregnant
- Make someone laugh
- Forgive someone for something they've done to you or someone else
- Share something - a book, a recipe, a meal, advise
- Cheer for someone at an event
- Help someone learn something (or figure something out)
- Leave a nice comment on someone's online post (Facebook, blog, review, etc.)
- If an employee at a store has been especially helpful, tell their manager about it
- Ask someone about their cultures/traditions
- Pull weeds
- Lend a pencil to someone
- Help someone tackle a chore you know they've been dreading
- Fix someone's favorite meal (or take them to their favorite restaurant)
- Become an organ donor
- Attend a neighborhood, work, or community event just to show your support
- Throw your trash away in the theater (or at the ballpark)
- Leave a generous tip; or, write a thank-you note to your waiter/waitress on the bill
- Give people copies of photos you've taken of them (or their children)
- Help someone feel better about themselves
- Volunteer your time or resources to a worthy cause
- Raise money for (or awareness of) a good cause
- Help an elderly or disabled neighbor (bring their trash cans in/out, drop off their mail at the door, fetch groceries from the store for them, etc.)
- Drop off flowers at the hospital and ask that they be delivered to someone who needs cheering up
- Say "happy birthday" to someone who isn't expecting it
- Brush the snow/ice off of someone else's car
- Clean the dishes in a common area, even though you weren't the one that dirtied them
- Let someone in a hurry cut in front of you
- Leave your newspaper behind at the restaurant or coffee shop so that someone else can read it
- If someone accidentally leaves their purse or laptop unattended, watch it for them until they return
- Roll up someone's car windows if it's about to rain
- Share your umbrella with someone
- Help someone get (or keep) a job
- Diffuse a tense situation
- Compliment someone on their dog (or child)
- If someone has thrown recycling in the trash can, move it to a recycling container
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